Our Attitudes Govern Our Destiny

Ever wondered, what is the impact of our thinking on our life?

In both, our professional as well as personal life we have two types of thoughts positive and negative. So basically these people are called optimists and pessimists. Our attitude defines our whole thinking. Attitude is a choice, we live with it. It reflects our way of perceiving life. Optimists, the people with a positive attitude towards life, live life more casually then the pessimists. The pessimists remain negative for a long time but when the problem passes by their life comes to an equilibrium again. Negative attitude leads to unhappiness and depression. The definition of happiness has totally changed in today’s scenario, people find happiness with the fulfilment of one’s desires. Everyone wants to be happy.

But we are here to focus on how it shapes our destiny.

The way you act around people will determine what kind of a human being you are. Some may be introvert and some maybe extrovert. Further the decisions you make will have both positive and negative impacts on your life, no matter how hard you try to make the so called right decision.

As you all must have heard a common line from your parents that “Destiny Lies in Your Own Hands”. Why do people talk about it? Why is it said that a person’s destiny lies in his/her own hands.

Every situation that you faced in the past, you learned something out of it. You certainly became stronger and prepared for the future. You gained confidence and courage to handle different type of situations. You learnt to build up your morals, your rules and values. The attitude ultimately is the thinking with which we live in this world. We get to know that if a person is negative about a particular situation then a negative outcome will follow and vice versa.

Some people leave the situation on fate and think that it’s meant to be. But I do not completely agree with these people, sometimes it’s true but not always. I believe that you can make your life what you want it to be but you have to fight for it a lot and everything will definitely fall into the right place. Living with a positive attitude helps a lot. Our body reacts to positive attitude.

Your future is yours and you have the right to control it. Take the step and gain some positive vibes, do not let negativity surround you. Instead of being serious, be productive. Leave the worries behind and take control of what you think is technically yours in life. Succeeding isn't a hard task and anyone can do it with the right amount of knowledge, values, and common sense. Take command of your life and see where you are and is the present situation going to take you to your destiny, if yes- great, if not then you need to change something. What changes have to be brought in life will again be decided by you and one step after another you will reach where you always wanted to see yourself. Everything takes time, do not expect some magic to happen overnight but with constant efforts you will reach your goals.

The law of attraction of the whole universe and your own strong desire will bring you closer to your destiny. So friends take full charge of your life and carve your own destiny by your own hands. The people around you, who you are as a person, and what you chose to get out of life are depending on it.

 So be proud and control your own destiny!