Little Drama does no harm

It was me who felt there should be no drama in an individual's life. Whatever you want to say, be straightforward. So it was a lame concept for me till date. Then I read many articles and came to a conclusion, which I will elaborate about.

Now the question arises "what exactly is drama?"

The word means "acting", "performing", behaving as if we were in a theater play rather than in a real life. In a theater play, every character is assigned a specific role and we act accordingly and do not look any further. But in real life also we play a part and when sometimes we are in an emotional situation we forget about who is near us and what is happening around and totally forget about the real society which we live in (in that moment) and this 'situation' for any individual is termed as "DRAMA".

Drama is not a feminine thing, men and women both get along with this. Women tend to burst into tears easily and in some cases anger. Uncontrolled anger is very dangerous to both men and women.
There is a misconception too. Drama is always seen as painful, stressful and something which involves a lot of suffering. But as per my knowledge, there is something called 'Happy Drama'. It is a state where an individual is so identified with his or her romance, with the giddiness of a new relationship, that they can’t see anything else. But people who go through this for too long may end up losing contact with the reality (in the worst of the situation).

I also read that some people who have zero drama in lives start craving it. They have their stomachs churning with the sometimes annoying, sometimes sweet, butterflies. There are many reasons that relationships provide a whole new arena for games to be played like it creates "adult tantrums" in which the person behaves childishly to get back at the other just because he/she was not replying to his/her texts or was not calling him/her or was avoiding him/her. According to Dr. Seth Meyers, a relationships and parenting expert, the process of resolution involves open communication: “The most important thing to do if someone in your life has tantrums that affect you is to sit the person down and seriously describe how the tantrums affect you. Explain that you are willing to work together with that person to help him/her find better ways to cope when he/she feels overwhelmed.”

But it also keeps things interesting and makes us feel loved and desired.

But if you are not willing then communication is the key, make the other person sit and have a chat.

But as of now, I think a little drama (only little ) does no harm, instead, it keeps us alive.

And please do not confuse drama and spark (they are entirely different).