Illusion

This series is worth a watch. Rating: 9/10-IMDb I just love the title song (By Ali Zafar)   Zindagi gulzar hai humko iss se pyaar hai Aana ek baar hai, kho dena bekaar hai Zindagi.. Zindagi.. Zindagi... gulzar hai Ye ishq ka darbaar hai Kisi ke gham ko baantna... hi pyar hai Haan ye pyaar hai Zindagi... gulzar hai Ye ishq ka darbaar hai Yahaan ghamon ko palna bekaar hai Haan bekaar hai Yahaan titliyaan muskurati hain Toh geeton mein dhal jati hai Yahaan jugnoo jab jagmagate hain Toh rang ban jaate hain Yeh mana ke aankhon mein ansoo hain Dilon mein basi bebasi Chalo yeh bhi mana ke apno se behter hai ajnabi Yahaan raaste dushwaar hain Aur manzilein us paar hain Magar isse.. jeene ko dil tayyar hai Ho tayyar hai Yeh zindagi gulzar hai Yeh ishq ka darbaar hai Kissi ke gham ko baantna.. hi pyar hai.. Haan yeh pyaar hai Haan pyaar hai Ho yeh pyaar hai...

All of out there might be aware of the stages in an individual's life. So, it's not something new, but the readers reading this article will be of different age groups and it will be fun to throw some light on this topic. In our Hindu Culture, human life is believed to comprise four stages. These are called "ashramas" and every person should ideally go through each of these stages:  "Brahmacharya" or the Student Stage "Grihastha" or the Householder Stage "Vanaprastha" or the Hermit Stage "Sannyasa" or the Wandering Ascetic Stage But there is so much more than this. In our 1st stage we are born helpless. We learn by observing others. We learn to walk, talk, speak in the same way as our parents do or we try to blend in with the surroundings. So we develop social and physical skills at this age by watching others in our surroundings. The goal is to teach us how to function within society so that we can be autonomous, s...

Why do people try to kill themselves? They are depressed, made a mistake, not able to handle pain, frustrated or are simply psychotic. Each one can be a possibility. Depression, without question, is the most common reason people commit suicide. Severe depression can lead to suffering as well as the belief that escape from it is hopeless. The pain of existence often becomes too much to bear. The state wraps up one's thinking, allowing ideas like "Everyone would all be better off without me" to make rational sense. The individual should not be blamed for falling prey to such distorted thoughts any more than a heart patient should be blamed for experiencing chest pain: it's simply the nature of their disease.We should all seek to recognize its presence in our close friends and loved ones. Often people suffer with it silently, planning suicide without anyone ever knowing. Despite making both parties uncomfortable, inquiring directly about suicidal thoughts in m...

It was me who felt there should be no drama in an individual's life. Whatever you want to say, be straightforward. So it was a lame concept for me till date. Then I read many articles and came to a conclusion, which I will elaborate about. Now the question arises "what exactly is drama?" The word means "acting", "performing", behaving as if we were in a theater play rather than in a real life. In a theater play, every character is assigned a specific role and we act accordingly and do not look any further. But in real life also we play a part and when sometimes we are in an emotional situation we forget about who is near us and what is happening around and totally forget about the real society which we live in (in that moment) and this 'situation' for any individual is termed as "DRAMA". Drama is not a feminine thing, men and women both get along with this. Women tend to burst into tears easily and in some cases anger. Uncontro...

   It's Not for us to say What will be And at the end of the day We'll see which way the whole thing bends And what it could bring 'coz nothing really matters 'cept the little things Some say it works like this, Maybe it's true, But the truth can lie sometimes, That's faith for you, Let the preachers talk, and we could sing The song for survival make sure it swings We are not perfect, we are not slick ooooooah We don't steal , just like thieves we are thick we walk our talk and we sing The song for survival make sure it swings It's not for us to say What will be and at the end of the day we'll see Which way the whole thing bends And what it could bring 'coz nothing really matters If we could swing with the little things.

Why is it that girls are considered less than boys? Why is it that girls are always considered to be inferior to boys, even though we can be equal? The normal human mentality after reading this immediately defines women based on their strength. I agree that a woman has less muscular strength than a man. But physical strength is not the only measure people. It should not be about gender. Men  need a woman more than we need them. Some men need violence, drugs, alcohol, or other methods to run away from a problem which they are not able to handle thus zero emotional stability. Some of them need to raise their voices every time they can't win over the "so-called" weaker sex. Some can't keep up with both managing a home and raising children and a full-time job (so they need a woman ) Some men are of the idea that  women covering up their bodies is the only way they are able to not think sexual thoughts about them long enough to focus on school or work. Now, wha...

The first question that pops into your heads after reading this topic is why in god’s name I should thank my enemy for my success and hard work. Well kind of true, Right? We all should thank our friends and family for supporting us and staying by our side during the hardest days of our lives. But friends, I feel that enemies deserve more of our blessings because they are the ones to treat us BADLY, they are the ones who are unfair to us, yet they are the ones who bring out the best in us. Their harsh behavior towards us makes us realize our potential and look at the same task differently. They will tell you your faults. They can be your colleagues in an office, classmates in college/school, your boss, teachers/professors etc. Enemies serve a great purpose in our lives. They are like the chosen evils of our life. They plan evil against you and somehow you manage to survive this and you end up getting stronger. I read an interesting post about Walt Disney – The man who creat...