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People get stronger after being hurt

It is often said that   when life is “falling apart,” it could actually be falling together… First of all things can go wrong for anyone anytime anywhere, universe doesn’t hate you. We need to learn to cope up with the certain obstruction of life. How we react to a situation really means a lot. You cannot find peace and happiness by avoiding situations instead you will be trapped further. Instead of running away from the problem, face it, take it as a challenge and experience a growth. You will fail or succeed but definitely you will learn something really helpful and you will be much stronger than anyone else because at least you took up the challenge. Disappointment further leads to wrong decisions which we regret later. Avoid it. Also do not expect too much from anyone because when it breaks down we find ourselves disappointed. Don’t let negative thoughts surround you welcome positivity and live with it. Remember my friend if life is throwing lemons at y...

Feminism- The burning issue

Kalki Koechlin's New Video Is the Most Powerful Thing on the Internet Today She's done us proud once again with her new poem, 'The Printing Machine,' which she's co-written and performed with the good folks at Blush , thereby giving us this powerful video. http://www.vagabomb.com/Kalki-Koechlins-New-Video-Is-the-Most-Powerful-Thing-on-the-Internet-Today/ The words, the visual effects and the beats speak for themselves. Women have striven hard for gaining equality with men. They have been held back and their opportunities taken away from them because of the fact that they were women. And it is the feminist movement that has been trying to give these rights to women who have been deprived of their equality and privileges that men have never given them. Feminism is a philosophy in which women and their contributions are valued. It is based on social, political and economical equality for women. Feminists can be anyone in the population, men, women, ...

FRIENDSHIP- Most common topic

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“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” ---- Anais Nin Friendship is the most beautiful and wonderful relationship that an individual shares.It is a special kind of love. A friend is a person who respects and trusts us and will never betray us. They understand your situation and try to comfort you during crisis.They act as a pill for your depression. They are there to lift up our spirits. The terms friend and friendship  mean different things to different people and different things to the same people at different times. To think and communicate effectively about the topic, people find it necessary to use distinctions such as true friends, best friends, good friends, casual friends, work friends, social friends, and friendly acquaintances. In spite of friendship's vague and seemingly indefinable quality, friendships contribute in important ways to psychological development...

Our Attitudes Govern Our Destiny

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Ever wondered, what is the impact of our thinking on our life? In both, our professional as well as personal life we have two types of thoughts positive and negative. So basically these people are called optimists and pessimists. Our attitude defines our whole thinking. Attitude is a choice, we live with it. It reflects our way of perceiving life. Optimists, the people with a positive attitude towards life, live life more casually then the pessimists. The pessimists remain negative for a long time but when the problem passes by their life comes to an equilibrium again. Negative attitude leads to unhappiness and depression. The definition of happiness has totally changed in today’s scenario, people find happiness with the fulfilment of one’s desires. Everyone wants to be happy. But we are here to focus on how it shapes our destiny. The way you act around people will determine what kind of a human being you are. Some may be introvert and some maybe extrovert. Further the d...

Humility - Key to success

Hello Readers. I am back after a long gap.Sorry to keep you waiting. It is said that humility is the key to success. Humility in a dictionary is defined as the quality of having modest or low view of one’s importance. It is a skill to admit that we have problems, experience pain, make mistakes, we are faulty, act in ways we shouldn't have, say things that are not good, think bad for others etc. the list goes on. We face all the negative and painful conditions without trying to escape from them because humility helps us understand it. How can we escape from a prison if we don't admit that we are a prisoner? How can we run if we cannot even walk?How can we swim if we are afraid of water? How can we solve our problems if we do not admit that we have them? Humility saves us from arrogance, false pride, overconfidence, egotism etc. It is a necessary quality for self-improvement of a human being and helps him/her grow and heal. It helps us to find answers to our own pro...

A Must Read !!

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We all know the importance of reading books.So, here is a list of  books that you must read once. The Fault In Our Stars by John Green  - It has everything a good book should have, the characters are really strong, and there is tragedy, twist, and love between two cancer patients. It is a beautiful piece of work as it highlights new perspective on cancer. It describes about the people caught in between life and death in a lucid manner. It is a must read for everyone who enjoys a little romance combined with tragedy. Dark Places by Gillian Flynn  –  This book will grab you from the first page to the last. Writing is superb. It is one of a kind crime fiction, thrill is all that accompanies, a little disturbing but original. The plot is simply amazing. The Great Gatsby by F.Scott Fitzgerald  – It is a classic American Novel of the 20th century. The narrative is constructed well. It is something extraordinary and simple and beaut...

ADDICTION - Part 3

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Knowing about Gambling addiction was fun!! Shopping Addiction is urge to spend more and more money and buy everything whether you need it or not. The addiction is also known as compulsive shopping or compulsive buying disorder. When we come across the term shopping it right away indicates women shopping but it affects men and women equally. Men do not over shop but they spend a way too much (on concerts, sports, and car).  About 60 percent of the population purchase things when they are on sale. As estimated 5-6 % of the American population is affected by this addiction and face financial crisis. Shopaholics is a common term we use to describe a shopping addict. Many shopaholics shop when they are stressed out because shopping makes them happy. It boosts the mood when they are low. Some shop for the perfect item and some just shop because they want to spend every single penny and buy everything. People who shop this way believe that if they shop they will feel better b...